I am Ready for Marriage… But…
I am quite ready for marriage at this point in time and I realize that the only thing that is holding me back is the lack of a big fat account in my bank or a big fat paycheck at the end of every month. I am now running the risk of hitting the big 30 and the losing the chance of marrying my awesome girlfriend that is KuKuNehNeh.
It does worry me as my 2 biggest crippling flaws I have is the inability to save and the ability to procrastinate.
“Why scrimp and save a million dollars and die a millionaire?”
“Why do it today when I can do it tomorrow?”
The only times when I go against my innate flaws are when the situation becomes less of me and more of someone else. And in this case, wanting to get married is as much of a want to KKNN as it is to me. As big as her desire to bear Eurasian kids, she has expressed willingness to bear children with me and run the potential of having kids with small eyes, huge eyebags and fat noses. See how wonderful that woman is?
And so, I shall move out of my comfort zone and strive to earn enough money to make this marriage happen soon.
Hmmm…. Maybe I’ll start tomorrow…
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April 22nd, 2009 at 10:45 pm
That’s sweet!
I hope your dreams would come true.
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April 23rd, 2009 at 10:27 am
@mlmaestro> Thanks for the well wishes!
April 22nd, 2009 at 11:35 pm
“..small eyes, huge eyebags and fat noses” I LIKE THIS PART! hahaha
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April 23rd, 2009 at 10:33 am
@ladyironchef> Hehehe… The line is actually expandable if I think harder about it. LOL
April 22nd, 2009 at 11:35 pm
Dang dang dang dang, dang dang dang dang, welcome to the big day of kris, and kknn
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April 22nd, 2009 at 11:41 pm
So envy~!I also want get married & bear kids for my bf b4 I turned old & cant wear sexy gown!I told him but he doesnt seen as touched & say I SIAO~ -_-” Everyone around me is tying knots or engaging lo =( I asked my bf n he say he has no plan! *shattered heart*
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April 23rd, 2009 at 10:34 am
@Regina> You younger than me leh. Take it slower! Your bf might see it a little later lar. Don’t worry so much.
April 22nd, 2009 at 11:43 pm
soooooo when!!!!
April 23rd, 2009 at 10:35 am
@arzhou> You transfer me your money in the bank lor. And it will be soon.
April 23rd, 2009 at 1:14 am
Just FYI, one of my good friend had a stable job, good career path so he felt ready to get married. A few months after the wedding, his company did a massive downsizing and he got retrenched.
I know it feels irresponsible to marry when you don’t have a fat bank account but it goes to show that one can never plan to well.
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April 23rd, 2009 at 1:20 am
Sorry, I just thought of something. I think I’d rather marry a guy who have good financial habits even if at the moment, he does not yet have a fat bank account, rather than a guy with a fat bank account but who is obviously a big spender.
The fat bank account won’t last forever, but a guy with good financial habits (e.g. save 30%, spend 30%, invest 30% and donate 10%) will surely grow a bank account.
If you were previously a big spender, it’s not too late of course.
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April 23rd, 2009 at 10:38 am
@Hillary> Your good friend is really unlucky but I guess it’s no surprise that something like that can happen. True that one can never plan too well but I guess I haven’t even reach that minimum point when I can say, “Hmmmm… this might work.”
And you are most right about finding someone who has good financial habits. I admit I don’t have them but I am changing even as we speak. ALL FOR THE FUTURE!!!
April 23rd, 2009 at 10:58 am
Both of you can work hard towards your goal! And I hope to hear the wedding bells ring very very soon!
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April 26th, 2009 at 8:58 pm
@Darran> Yeah we will work hard. Thanks for the well wishes!
April 23rd, 2009 at 12:23 pm
This is so… lovely. I wish I could marry soon too.
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April 26th, 2009 at 8:58 pm
@Razlan> Finding the right one beats marrying early!
April 23rd, 2009 at 12:31 pm
Is this the precursor to your new website: Make Money Online With Krisandro.com?
But jokes aside, all the best to the both of you as we await the invasion of the small eyes/huge eyebags/fat noses kids
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April 26th, 2009 at 8:59 pm
@Miss Loi> Can’t wait for them to grow up with smaller eyes, bigger eyebags and fatter nose and enrol at the Temple.
April 23rd, 2009 at 12:49 pm
You’re a guy leh. No need to worry about hitting 30 lah! I more worried can? Imagine having baby after I hit 30! Painful process.
But I’m not ready. Financially, mentally and environmentally. *sad*
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April 26th, 2009 at 9:00 pm
@claudia> You got so many other things going on what. Don’t wait too long though!
April 23rd, 2009 at 5:10 pm
waiting for you~I’m waiting for you~~
waiting for krisandro to marry me~~
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April 26th, 2009 at 9:00 pm
@KKNN> Why don’t you propose lar. Make this faster.
April 23rd, 2009 at 11:25 pm
I old liao~
My bf also say no $ how to get marry.
Then start telling me about must buy hse tis n tis if want get married..-_-” Such a wet blanket la!
Dun even let me dream!
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April 26th, 2009 at 9:01 pm
@Regina> YOU OLD??? Anyway, just dream on your own lar. :p
April 26th, 2009 at 2:05 pm
i personally think that marriage is not about bridal gowns/suits, nor it is about wedding dinners held at 5 star hotels.
marriage is a lifetime thing which comes with mutual trust, security and love for each other. marriages are getting much commecialized and materialistic. my cousin and her husband got married at their place with only family members present, yet they were happy and received well-wishes from everyone.
my boyfriend and I are dating with the prospect of getting married, and with this entry of yours, I guess both of us will have to change our spending habits. we may break up in the future but improving our spending habits will prove beneficial?
April 26th, 2009 at 9:30 pm
@Apple> I do think if it were entirely up to me, It will be the simplest of gatherings with family and important friends to celebrate the marriage. But there is the responsibility to the older generation to hold the traditional wedding dinner which will cost a bomb.
You should totally save up as early as you can. As you said, it may prove beneficial whatever the future holds.
April 27th, 2009 at 8:46 am
i think i truly agree with Apple
it’s all about the mutual trust. i am also ready for marriage but that guy of mine kept telling me he needs to save up for our future. oops i feel despo hehe. so good luck and work hard! all the best to you and your KKNN 
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April 27th, 2009 at 11:49 am
@Jacelyn> Then you are in the same boat as KKNN! Cause her ‘guy friend of hers’ says the same. :p
May 1st, 2009 at 10:35 pm
haven’t read ur blog for sometime…but it’s good too hear that u’re considering marriage now.good luck for both of u.
eh,ur shoulder look tanned la.
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May 4th, 2009 at 2:29 pm
achtung> Thanks for the well wishes! We were quite baked that day at Sentosa. The sun was scorching!