5 Things Best Friends Won’t Do To You
- Remove you from their clique because you don’t meet up often enough to their expectations.
- Remove you from their clique because they don’t like your bf/gf.
- Remove you from their clique because you decide to be the bad guy and out one of the members on his/her much gossiped about wrong doings in hope of helping him/her.
- Remove you from their clique because they decided that you have changed and they cannot accept it.
- Remove you from their clique.
The last point isn’t a typo. Best friends simply do not remove you from their clique.
They don’t ignore your emails and sms-es. They don’t ‘degrade’ your friendship just because you have changed. Such best friends are better off as just acquaintances or even in the ignore list.
Good luck to people who pose as best friends in cliques. Wake up one day and realize that the very same reasons that you have ousted someone out for is being replicated by some of you. Watch in horror as the group dwindle in numbers as you realize that the same things they do to the ‘former best friends’ can be also done to you.
People cannot prove themselves in times of peace, only in trouble when you realize who your friends really are.
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August 18th, 2009 at 3:48 pm
Well said, well said!
August 21st, 2009 at 12:44 am
@VTay> Resonates with u eh solo girl?
August 19th, 2009 at 10:44 am
Totally feel for this post. Especially point 1.
It upsets me when people measures friendship according to the amount of meetups. Without even the slightest consideration that one cant meet up dat often due to personal constraints or personal problems faced.
If one is truly a friend, perhaps s/he should be more concern about how the friend is doin and lend the utmost support and not whine and complain that the friend is not meeting up as much as before.
August 21st, 2009 at 12:45 am
@Ade> Everyone has their own standard I guess, but IMHO, the bar is set too high for this one.
August 21st, 2009 at 10:33 am
*Nods* Understand.
August 24th, 2009 at 4:33 pm
how sweet…haha
August 25th, 2009 at 10:13 pm
@achtung> You’re kidding!
August 27th, 2009 at 8:56 pm
Hi , i bloghopped and saw this meaningful post , i’ve decided to post it in my blog , and credits to you , i’ve added some other stuffs in . If you felt uncomfortable with that , do email me and i’ll remove the post .
September 2nd, 2009 at 12:05 pm
@xIgnition> Saw your post. No worries about that. Crediting me back is good enough.
February 13th, 2010 at 1:51 am
WOW…Thanx a ton you maby you should look at what your doing,because ppl dont jus wake up not likkin u. u cant put the blame on other people because you changed. And u knw this is a shady Blog and you know what this is chidlish ASHLEY..! so dissapointedd.
Watever,
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